Depressed from events ...?

i hate events like Newyear Valentine ....etc i don't know why i get so depressed just to know that an event is coming by . ...is this normal !!!

Depressed from events ...?
This is a purely personal opinion: Yes, it is normal. I have been dealing with depression for about 10 years now. And every christmas, valentines, and my birthday, it gets harder to manage those feeling of loneliness and sadness. If you can, try to see your MD or Therapist right before these events and let them know your having more trouble during these times. Maybe they can suggest support groups or other things to give you the extra help during thes times. If not, then just keep busy and in good company. Spend lots of time just hanging out with your friends.
Reply:i dont think it is normal unless you have depression, i think you need to go see your Dr. may be getting some help just might be usefull for you. there is nothing wrong with getting help, but there is something wrong when you dont get help. think about it, pray about it.. go with your heart, and good luck!! deb.
Reply:When everyone is celebrating the events of Thanks giving on planet earth.


Why must you deprive yourself and be the by-stander year in and year out living in misery in planet of apes.


Why not join the crowds and make merry yourself instead of living in misery over the ghost stories from the graveyards in planet of apes?


Why miss all the Cheers everyone wants to give you so you don't live in misery year-in and year-out in planet of apes.


That"s why it's call Seasons of Greetings in planet of apes.
Reply:nope , not with me i love the hollidays i get excited an feel great.
Reply:I think it's how your foreseeing the events that can be troubling or depressing. You didn't mention Christmas is that an ok holiday?. As to New Year you should look towards that day as "laying to rest all the unhappy events of the past year" and starting a Year with a fresh outlook on life. We as human beings tend to look at the worst because the happy times are over clouded by the sad times in our life. Valentine, shouldn't be an unhappy event since it's made for those who have that love in their life. I will not give up on finding love in this world. During this event could you not show someone special in your life, doesn't have to be someone close to you, just someone like a store clerk or a receptionist who's always welcomed you with a smile, couldn't you recognize them as being very special people in your life and showing them some form of appreciation for the good feelings they've given you?